What is sociology?
Sociology is the scientific study of human relationships. A sociologist collects a vast amount of empirically collected data, analyzes it through advanced scientific procedures and studies a large number of studies in order to arrive at patterns and generalizations about human behavior in relationships.
Why should I consult a sociologist?
There are several self-proclaimed experts, motivational speakers and people all around us who are willing to offer advice on human relationships. While they may have a good intention to advise- they speak from their personal experience, opinions and perceptions.
A sociologist is scientifically trained in studying human relationships. The expertise of a sociologist comes from the fact that she has spent significant years of her life studying human relationships through scientific procedures. She knows about not one but several cases and instances where a particular situation has been encountered by people in their lives. Therefore, her advice is more reliable and trustworthy. She understands how social circumstances and culture play their role in shaping human social behavior and therefore offers advice that is socially acceptable, culturally viable and appropriate.
Due to her expertise, she has the potential to identify the basic underlying issues and root causes associated with a specific behavior in human relationships which may not be visible to a layman and is therefore in a better position to offer solutions that are more effective, reliable and beneficial.
She understands that people’s decisions, actions and behavior are uniquely shaped by their social circumstances and therefore offers advice that is tailored to their needs and circumstances.
When should I consult a sociologist?
If you are not happy and satisfied with your current relationship and feel the need to improve the quality and health of your relationship, it is time to consult a sociologist
When should I not consult a sociologist?
A sociologist is an expert in human relationships. Her expertise can be utilized to improve the quality and health of relationships. . If you are looking for advice on mental issues or if you are having trouble with all of your relationships, it is time to consult a counsellor. If you are living in or know someone who is living in abuse, it is time to call 911.
How should I select a good sociologist?,
When selecting a sociologist make sure the sociologist is qualified enough to offer a good sociological advice. This means that the sociologist should have both – good and advanced academic credentials in sociology as well as enough practical experience in the real world to be able to reflect on real social issues. She should have sound knowledge, deep understanding and good experience in the cultural arena of the person she is offering advice to.